{"id":5319,"date":"2016-07-17T04:00:35","date_gmt":"2016-07-17T11:00:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/?p=5319"},"modified":"2016-07-15T16:10:58","modified_gmt":"2016-07-15T23:10:58","slug":"the-letters-my-mom-saved","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/philippines\/the-letters-my-mom-saved\/","title":{"rendered":"The Letters My Mom Saved."},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_5325\" style=\"width: 387px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/grandma-and-t-001\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5325\" data-attachment-id=\"5325\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/philippines\/the-letters-my-mom-saved\/attachment\/grandma-and-t-001\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/Grandma-and-T-001-e1467930842919.jpg?fit=377%2C524&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"377,524\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Mom and Teresa\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Grandma with T&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/Grandma-and-T-001-e1467930842919.jpg?fit=737%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"size-full wp-image-5325\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/Grandma-and-T-001-e1467930842919.jpg?resize=377%2C524\" alt=\"Grandma with T\" width=\"377\" height=\"524\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5325\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">My mom with T<\/p><\/div>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When we lived in the Philippines and later in Vanuatu, I wrote letters to my family every week. And every week after my parents read my letters, Mom filed them away. That\u2019s a lot of letters. Let\u2019s see, fifty-two weeks multiplied by twenty-two years \u2026 Hmm. That adds up to 1144 letters. Subtract a couple of weeks for home leave every two year, and you still have 1122 letters.<\/p>\n<p>For the past few years all those letters have been sitting, untouched, in my storage room. So why should I read them now? I <em>wrote<\/em> those letters. I <em>lived<\/em> that reality.<\/p>\n<p>Then it occurred to me that, since I\u2019ve set the first part of my new novel in the Philippines, maybe I should look at them&#8211;just to refresh my memory.<\/p>\n<p>I took a look, and come to find out, there were lots of things I\u2019d forgotten.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5326\" style=\"width: 530px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/vancouver-airport-001\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5326\" data-attachment-id=\"5326\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/philippines\/the-letters-my-mom-saved\/attachment\/vancouver-airport-001\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/Vancouver-airport-001-e1467930766945.jpg?fit=520%2C488&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"520,488\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Vancouver airport\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;C &amp;#038; T with great-grandma and Sarah heading for departure gate&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/Vancouver-airport-001-e1467930766945.jpg?fit=1002%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"size-full wp-image-5326\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/Vancouver-airport-001-e1467930766945.jpg?resize=520%2C488\" alt=\"C &amp; T with great-grandma and Sarah heading for departure gate\" width=\"520\" height=\"488\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5326\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Vancouver airport, C &amp; T heading for departure gate with great-grandma and Sarah<\/p><\/div>\n<p>First of all, I\u2019d forgotten exactly how much more pleasant airplane travel used to be. In my first letter home, I zeroed in on the third leg of our journey to the Philippines, the flight from Tokyo to Hong Kong. The JAL 747 we flew on was only about one-eighth full.<\/p>\n<p>We had so much room that T, our one-year-old daughter, stretched out on two seats to sleep. C, our three year old, used two seats to play with the paperdolls the stewardess gave her. (That\u2019s what we called flight attendants in 1971.) R, our baby, slept in a bassinet supplied by the airline and attached to the bulkhead.\u00a0 And my husband and I used one set of seats for eating and another when we wanted to look out the window.<\/p>\n<p>I did remember that airplane food was better in 1971. The menu I described in my letter confirmed it.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Eye of beef tenderloin wrapped in bacon<\/li>\n<li>Snow peas<\/li>\n<li>Very fresh prawns with a lemon sauce<\/li>\n<li>Green salad with tiny cucumbers<\/li>\n<li>Roll<\/li>\n<li>Mandarin orange pudding with pineapple sauce, and<\/li>\n<li>Coffee<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And this wasn\u2019t first class or even executive. We were flying coach.<\/p>\n<p>Another nice touch: They gave each of us warm wash cloths after we boarded, after we ate, and when we landed. They also passed out bamboo-and-paper fans.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_1220\" style=\"width: 510px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/family\/a-country-bumpkin-goes-to-the-city\/attachment\/airport-to-manila-001\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1220\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1220\" data-attachment-id=\"1220\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/family\/a-country-bumpkin-goes-to-the-city\/attachment\/airport-to-manila-001\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/airport-to-Manila-001-e1467927973384.jpg?fit=500%2C507&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"500,507\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"airport to Manila, Eugene, me, and girls\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;at the airport&amp;#8211;leaving home, heading for Manila&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/airport-to-Manila-001-e1467927973384.jpg?fit=500%2C507&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"wp-image-1220 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/airport-to-Manila-001-e1467927973384.jpg?resize=500%2C507\" alt=\"airport to Manila 001\" width=\"500\" height=\"507\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1220\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Eugene, Nicki and three daughters about to board the plane<\/p><\/div>\n<p>The second thing I\u2019d forgotten about the day we left the United States was how unsettling it was for our daughters. They were leaving the only home they knew and flying off to a strange land. The baby didn\u2019t know any better, but after a few hours on the plane, the two older ones weren\u2019t so sure they wanted to leave home.<\/p>\n<p>We were leaving Anchorage where we\u2019d stopped to refuel and were starting to cross the Pacific when C, our three-year-old daughter told me, \u201cI want to go back to Grandma and Grandpa\u2019s house because I don\u2019t know what the Philippines looks like.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>T, our middle daughter who was almost two years old, also had something to say, but she held her counsel until we landed in Tokyo. Our trip from Vancouver, B.C., to Anchorage to Tokyo had lasted about twelve hours, and during the last hour of the flight it was bumpy because we were flying on the edge of a typhoon. When we de-planed, T assumed the trip was finally finished. \u201cI want to go to my home now,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>They must have been tough little girls, though, because I reported back to my parents that by the following day they were much better.<\/p>\n<p>So there you are, insights and forgotten memories taken from my first letter home. Only 1121 letters left to read. What do you think? Should I keep on reading?<\/p>\n<p>Has anyone saved your letters?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/writing\/187\/attachment\/my-signature\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-443\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"443\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/writing\/187\/attachment\/my-signature\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/my-signature.png?fit=189%2C62&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"189,62\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"my signature\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;my signature&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/my-signature.png?fit=189%2C62&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-443\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/my-signature.png?resize=189%2C62\" alt=\"my signature\" width=\"189\" height=\"62\" \/><\/a>If you enjoyed this post, please share.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 When we lived in the Philippines and later in Vanuatu, I wrote letters to my family every week. And every week after my parents read my letters, Mom filed them away. That\u2019s a lot of letters. Let\u2019s see, fifty-two weeks multiplied by twenty-two years \u2026 Hmm. That adds up to 1144 letters. Subtract a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[155,148,253],"tags":[1310,1311,1309,1305,1312,1306,1308,1313,1307],"class_list":["post-5319","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family","category-philippines","category-travel","tag-air-travel-isnt-what-it-used-to-be","tag-airplane-food-in-1971","tag-japan-airlines","tag-moving-family-from-the-united-states-to-the-philippines","tag-moving-with-children","tag-saving-letters","tag-vancouver-bc-airport","tag-writing-home-with-paper-and-pen","tag-writing-to-family"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3Kn1e-1nN","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":5365,"url":"https:\/\/nickichenwrites.com\/wordpress\/philippines\/two-maids-really\/","url_meta":{"origin":5319,"position":0},"title":"Two Maids? 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